The number one Podcast for Overcoming Pornography:
Learn Something, Move Forward
Taking stock of lapses by learning something and moving forward is the only way to put it behind you.
Each time we do the thing we promised we would never do again we tend to beat ourselves up. We often treat it like we are never going to get past it, we think we are lost, unworthy and powerless.
That wallowing and self pitying approach keeps us from learni
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How can I tell that I’m ready to change?
Costs outweigh the benefits.
- Buffering provides something
- Acknowledge those benefits.
- How do you want to feel when you think about pornography
- “Client said, I want to feel disgusted.”
- That doesn’t acknowledge what pornography has done for you
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- That also doesn
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How much power does pornography have?
So many of us want pornography to have no power over husbands, over our children, over our own lives.
Yet, so many of us allow pornography to have so much power over us.
Why?
Let’s just talk, for a minute about the attractive capacity of pornog
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If you’ve ever been to a 12 step meeting you’ve heard the phrase, “Hi, my name is Zach and I’m an addict”.
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Almost everyone I’ve worked with thinks they’re “addicted to porn”.
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What if, instead of believing, “Hi, my name is Zach and I’m an addict” we believed something else.
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I used to think that I was addicted to pornography, there was something in my brain that made it so
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This episode we talk about the most important turning point in our relationship.
How things changed for my wife in a way that allowed her to be there in a moment that previously would have been a blow out fight.
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Mastering pornography means dealing with discomfort
A lot of my clients come to me with this one question, why do I behave one way, when I believe I should behave another.
A lot of you are listening to this podcast because of pornography use, but this work and all the principles apply to any unwanted behav
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Let me tell you about the day I lost my job.
It was Mother’s Day and the person that let me go was also my best friend.
He let me go because he had hired me to do a job that I wasn't qualified for and I didn't provide him any real value other than he liked havin
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who we think we are, Who we are and who we want to be.
This week one of my clients was talking about his life and the choices he had made
His story, t
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17TH ANNIversary edition.
Happy anniversary,
This week, in honor of our anniversary, 17 things we’ve learned in our marriage.
1. Number one marriage takes work
2. we can do hard things
3. It takes commitment
4. stay calm
5. follow your path
6. assume the best
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