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Accountability Partners
Accountability partners
There is often, in marriages and in the addiction model of pornography struggles, a question of, “what about my accountability partner?” Â
Often, we ask this because we are seeking to have...
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Radical Honesty
Radical honesty.Â
Not lying to self about what pornography does for you
-       I don’t want to feel frustrated the rest of the day – this is where it starts
-       Now’s a good time,Â
-Â Â Â Â Â Â Â After I turn to...
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Fear Not When talking about tough subjects
Fear Not
Is it going to destroy your life if you drink a cup of coffee?  What if you have sex outside of marriage?  How about if you don’t eat meat sparingly and fruits and vegetables in the season thereof?
We think...
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Bonus Episode - Ben Pugh and I talk about parenting and pornography
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Healthy Sexuality
Healthy sexuality is not a fear based avoidance of difficult sexual topics.
We need to teach our children swimming skills
-Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Agency
-Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Repentance
-Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Atonement
We need to model the skills of healthy...
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Three Minute Drill
Let’s talk about what coaching is.Â
The kind of coaching that I do is called causal coaching.  This work seeks to find the underlying issue that is creating the results in your life. Â
This means that when someone...
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Climbing Life's Mountains
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The other day Zac h and I went hiking up Shadow Mountain with our 4 little kids. Just to get up to the base of the “Mountain” you...
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Emotional Debtor
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Emotional debt
We’ve talked about this on the podcast before – we bought a house.
It was super exciting for us to buy our house here in st g because, for about 18 months we lived in...
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Darcy on how to be a mom who can talk to their kids about pornography.
Mothers day!
As a mom how often do you talk to other moms about pornography and how often do you find that their kids are struggling?
Mom’s often bear the burden of talking about pornography with their kids, what tips...
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I'm An Addict, Right?
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You’re addicted to pornography, Right?
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T: The addiction Causes Problems.Â
F: Stress
·      Addiction means I’m not responsible for my actions –Â
·      Addiction can...
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Do you hold your husband to an impossible standard?
Do you hold your husband to a standard that you yourself can’t uphold?
This idea has been on my mind a lot lately.Â
We are all designed to notice beauty
Just because we notice beauty it doesn’t have to mean...
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Exercising Faith and Prayer to eliminate pornography - part 2
That’s faith. Let’s talk about prayer. Â
I’ve often gone back to the bible dictionary to understand this principle and I am struck by what it teaches about the nature of prayer. Â
First, it is work.  So many of us go...
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